Actually I completely disagree. Putting religion a side, logically marriage is known to be one of the best things in life. Having a family is a massive privilege, after all that's why THE MAJORITY of the world are married/have a family. With a family you build a strong bond with your partner and children. You enjoy life much more than you think. It's not a prison at all, you're getting married to someone you love.
Dude all your talking about is good side of marriage. Lets talk about the reality of marriage. You get married
with a women in her 20s then 10 years down the road you are no longer attracted to her. Lets talk about
growing apart and all the crazy stuff that happens in marriage. Being obligated to be with someone for
an extended amount of time seems unreal to me. This is because people change so much.
Also if marriage was one of the best things in life than why do so many people get divorced?
Can't be all hyped up to what you are making it out to be.
My last point to make is...
You don't need marriage for all the points you are making.
Which are
-Strong bond with family
-Simply having a family
-To enjoy life
The fact that you're thinking of looks rather than personality is my point. If I'm honest with you when you're in a relationship after 6 months the looks get normal and it's all about the personality. The reality of marriage isn't as bad as you're making it. If you follow the right procedures you wont get divorced. Beside when you move from relationship to relationship there is no love or emotion. That isn't the life you would want. Obviously people change but they also adapt as well so that's a weak answer. You could say that for anything. Obviously, putting effort in your relationship is going to be hard but when you put the time and effort in, it's always worth it in the end.
Also marriage STRENGHTENS the bond and makes life MORE enjoyable.